Get yourself back!
“Because you didn’t want to lose him, you lost yourself in the process”.
You became a girl who kept being mistreated and you formed a habit of saying “I’m used to it”.
You became a girl who kept being unappreciated and you begin to tell yourself “it’s okay”.
You became a girl who kept being undervalued and you learned how to say “I’m fine”.
You became a girl who kept being put last and you naturally reacted with “it’s whatever”.
You became a girl who kept being taken for granted and you dealt with it by repeating “everything’s ok”.
You became a girl who kept being unhappy and you regularly told people “I’m going to be fine” But you know deep down your NOT😢…..
And if you’re reading this right now, then you need to understand that no guy is worth losing yourself for, no guy is worth suffering for at the expense of YOU… your happiness!
“We all go through hard times in life. It’s a part of being alive and it’s the reality we all have to deal with.
There are times we forget our value as a person because we are so blinded with these thoughts of loneliness, emptiness and ego.
Somewhere along the road we become numbed with all the frustrations and dissatisfaction.
But life itself isn’t always about darkness and sadness, Life is also filled with colours and that makes it beautiful. Along this path of darkness there’s always light waiting to be seen by our daunted hearts.
Our heart is gifted to see this light.
It may be hiding behind those circumstances that we encounter; in a stranger we just met at an unexpected place; a family who has been always there but you just ignored because of your imperfect relationship with them; because you have given it your all to the very person that is killing your soul and your life!
It might be a long time friend you have or a friend you just met or a friend that is waiting just round the corner if you freed yorself.
Open your heart and you will see how blessed you are to have them all in your life. STOP GIVING it your all to ONE PERSON that don’t DESERVE you.
Just remember Sometimes the people in your life are there for a reason they are the light that shines your path in some dark phases of life. Don’t lose them and don’t lose hope…”
As you grow and evolve, it might feel like you’re losing your mind. But you’re just losing the old mindset that was
holding you back. But it’s all normal
Don’t Take Anything Personally that’s just down right cruel anymore! What ever they says and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream.
When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
Also if you have children please 🙏 think about them and I mean really think hard! So many broken parents are building broken children. Don’t let your mess become the foundation of your child’s life. Break the cycle you’ve got this.🙏
I was terribly mistreated. Children raised in this toxic environment will keep the abuse or being abused going generation after generation.
Get yourself back!
Let the old self go and focus on YOU! GET YOURSELF BACK GIRL. 🙏💙 before it’s too late.
The people who care for you can see it plain as day! You should away listen when more than 2 people have the same concerns only you can save yourself. Please take care in all of your endeavours and stop giving up your power of self!
P.S. This post applies to both sexes. A male or Female can be the abuser. Abuse doesn’t have a gender.
Have a good day. Wishing you health, peace and empowerment always.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻 💙