It is hard not to allow the outside world to affect you.

Right now it is hard not to allow the outside world to affect you. If the outside world 🌎 (could be family) does, it is all right to put your health first. I had to make a choice today. I had to choose my mental and physical health today. Stress can kill. Anxiety is real! Stress is real. You are worthy enough to put yourself first. Wishing you health, peace and empowerment.
Xxx J.W 🙏💙

Why Stress Is So Bad For Your Health

Stress is a natural part of life. These days there are very few who don’t get  stressed over money, the economy, the housing market, jobs or even family. Our  bodies naturally react to stress through blood pressure, heart rate,  respiration, body temperature and muscle contractions. Everyone deals with  stress on different levels and in different ways.  However, if one is not  able to deal with stress it can ultimately lead to mental and physical  exhaustion.

stressedIt wasn’t until the 1930’s that the word stress was used to characterize a  condition where a stressor causes stimulus. Hans Selye, an endocrinologist,  witnessed an inappropriate physiological response to demand placed on a human or  animal.  Before coining the term stress was considered a normal part of  daily function and encounters that results in strain. Now, we know that stress  plays an important part in physical, emotional and mental well being.

Stress is defined as a failure to respond appropriately to emotional or  physical threats whether they are real or imagined. The signs of stress are  easily recognizable and can present themselves as cognitive, behavioral,  emotional or physical symptoms. Therefore when presented with stress one’s whole  demeanor, attitude and presence can change. Cognitive, emotional and behavioral  symptoms include poor judgment, negative outlook, anxiety, worrying, moodiness,  irritability, agitation, inability to relax, loneliness, isolation, depression,  lack of concentration and absentmindedness. Physical symptoms include increased  heart rate, breathing, energy, blood pressure, cholesterol and production of  sweat. Stress can also cause physical symptoms of aches and pain, diarrhea,  constipation, nausea, vomiting, dizziness, chest pain, upset stomach and  headache. Chronic stress that occurs over a longer period of time consistently  can cause both physical and psychological damage to a person. Long-term stress  depresses the immune system leaving it susceptible to infections, disease, and  illness. Stress promotes the accumulation of visceral fat, which is a leading  cause of obesity. Additional chronic stress has been connected to ulcers,  cancer, heart disease, increased outbreaks of psoriasis, depression and diabetes. In children who  experience chronic stress a stunt to developmental growth is normally seen.

Stress is normally given a bad connotation, which implies it is  negative.  However, most people forget or don’t mention good stress. When  Hans Selye discovered stress, he studied all types of stress and realized that  stress even when its good is still a stress nonetheless. He developed eustress or good stress and distress or bad stress.  Eustress is a condition that enhances ones physical or mental function such as  exercise, marriage, having a baby or a promotion. Where as, distress is  persistent stress that is not resolved through coping or adaptation, which can  lead to symptoms of withdrawal or anxiety. The difference between good and bad  stress is based upon one’s past experiences, personal expectations, and the  resources to cope with stress.

Coping with stress is not an easy task. Everyone adapts to stress differently  and some people have an easier time dealing with stress than others. The way  that the body reacts to a stressor is understood through the General Adaptation  Syndrome (GAS), which describes the effects of stress on the body. Depending  upon the intensity and duration of the stressor will determine if the stress is  acute-short term or chronic-long term.  At the first sign of stress the  bodies stress response is in a state of alarm. The body reacts by producing  adrenaline which causes a fight or flight  response. Fight or flight is the body’s way of preparing to fight (cope, adapt)  or flee. The second stage is the resistance to stress. If a stressor persists  the body must find a means of coping with the stress.  Does the body have a  way to adapt to the strain or demands of the surrounding environment? As we cope  with stress, the body’s resources (nutrients, enzymes, proteins, amino acids,  vitamins, minerals) are gradually depleted. The final stage is exhaustion where  the body’s resources are completely used up, leading to inability to function  normally. Weakness, fatigue decreased energy, inability to concentrate or think  clearly are all signs of exhaustion. Long-term exhaustion can be detrimental to  ones health and can manifest disease. Although, these stages represent a model  of how stress affects the body, stress can manifest itself differently in every  person.

No two people will respond to the exact same stressor in the exact same way.  Life experience and social background play a role in determining ones ability to  cope with stress. Normal responses to stress include adaptation, coping, anxiety and depression. Coping mechanisms  include stress management. Stress management provides individuals with  techniques to handle stress on a daily basis. Learning to cope with stress will  help you live a happier, healthier life.

Sarah  Labdar –    About the Author:

Graduated with a BA in exercise science and have worked in the medical field  since.  My focus is alternative medicine however all aspects of health  interest me.  Check out my health website!

Everyday Health, Live  your Life to the fullest!



Practicing relaxation techniques can help calm our
days when they get too stressful. It’s easy to miss out on enjoying a day in our
life if our minds are filled with worrisome thoughts and our bodies are tense
with stress. A day lived is not coming back and we should not lose it in this

For starters, eliminate some things. Avoid running around
frantically trying to do too many things. Slow down and move with an easy

If you cannot avoid problems and busy days, get in the habit of
pausing to breathe slowly and deeply. Try to continue with easy breathing as you
continue on with your tasks.

If you can get a short break
create a detailed peaceful retreat in your imagination and go there to calm your
feelings. Picture it in vivid detail. Perhaps a comfortable room with soft
music, a quiet place in the woods, a placid lake, a beautiful garden with
flowers, trees, birds. Perhaps such a place already exists. While you are there,
let go of everything except where you are.

Create a personal selection of
calming words like serene, tranquil, peaceful and repeat them to yourself as you
move through your day.

After work perhaps you can have a relaxing pastime
such as walking or listening to music.

“There is however, a true music of
nature – the song of the birds, the whisper of leaves, the ripple of waters upon
a sandy shore, the wail of wind or sea.” –

Are Your Emotions Affecting Your Health?

We all have emotions, that is a given.  As our day unfolds, we may experience a  variety of emotions depending upon the people we interact with, the tasks we  undertake, our communing and so on all of which stimulate feelings which in turn  result in emotions.  What about relieving stress?

When driving to work and traffic is heavy,  do you find yourself tense and anxious?  If you get cut off or a driver won’t  let you over when you need to change lanes, do you become enraged?  At work, are  your co-workers chronically complaining about their families or health issues?   All of these situations add stress, anxiety and a general feeling of negativity  to your life.  Not a very pleasant picture.  Do this on a daily basis and it is  no wonder you begin to have aches, pains, stiffness, stomach trouble, etc.  All  related to some form of emotional stress.

Fortunately, there are  alternatives; there is a bright and shiny light at the end of the tunnel.  How  we choose to react to these interactions will make a difference as to the affect  their emotions can have on our body.  We do have the option of taking control of  the emotional roller coaster we are on.  Having the freedom to enjoy a higher  quality of life is our God given right. We just need to know how relieve stress,  anxiety, fear, frustration and a host other negative emotions in our life.

First, let’s take a look at what goes on in our body when we react to  various emotions.  We know that our body is designed to protect us when in  danger and this is a good thing.  This is called the fight  or flight syndrome and during this type of situation our body releases  certain chemicals that causes our body to shut down certain systems and put  other systems into overdrive.  This served us quite well during the cave man  days when threatened by beasts.  It also comes in handy if we are threatened by  a mugger or other such incident.  But it also comes into play when our brain  receives signals from out body through our emotions that relay heightented  states of duress or stress which releases a chemical called cortisol.

During these times of stress, the ongoing release of cortisol stops the healing  process and actually causes damage to the immune system.  So, when you find  yourself fealing anxious or stressed, you have higher levels of cortisol running  amuck in your body which causes degenerative changes.  It supresses your immune  system and over long periods of time can lead to other process such as disease.

Pharmacologist Connie Grauds, R. Ph., states in her book The Energy  Prescription that “An undisciplined mind leaks vital energy in a continuous  stream of thoughts, worries, and skewed perceptions, many of which trigger  disturbing emotions and degenerative chemical processes in the body”.

Our  genes determine our physical characteristics but NOT our psychological  charateristics.  We can exert a tremendous amount of control over our genes  actually changing the quality of our life simply by taking control of our  emotions.  Our genes can be activated through stimulation from our environment –  both the outer environment in which we live, work and play as well as our  internal, biological environment.

The outer environment consists of our  family, business, social networks, foods,  toxins, church, parks, etc.  The inner environment consists of our thoughts and  beliefs, emotions, biochemical, energetic and spiritual components.

Our  thoughts and emotions affect our genes everyday every bit as much as the  environment we live in.  Your beliefs become biology!  The more we focus on a  specific thought or practice a specific action, the higher number of neurons are  required in our brain to transmit the thoughts which means increased pathways  are required to handle the processing of this information.  So our brains can be  reshaped according to our thoughts and thought patterns.

Our thoughts and  emotions turn are genes on and off.  Our brain holds the keys to our own  pharmaceutical division which has a complete array of healing compounds waiting  to be delivered throughout our body – on command.  Our body was perfectly  engineered, created and designed to secrete chemicals specifically to enhance  our immune system.  We have chemicals on board to make us feel happy  (serotonin), chemicals that reduce or eliminate pain (endorphins); all of which  can be released through conscious action on our part.

According to Dr.  Andrew Weil, optimism heals and promotes a longer life.  People who have a  positive attitude toward aging tend to live 7.5 years longer than those  individuals who held negative attitudes toward aging.

Energy techniques  such as EFT, also known as Emotional Freedom Techniques, are wonderful methods  through which you can take control of your thoughts and emotions and improve the  quality of life you live.  Medical science has known for decades our ability to  actively turn our genes on and off.  We are capable of generating the molecules  needed for healing.  As I stated previously, our brains are already a well  stocked pharmacy, ready to generate and circulate into our body chemicals  similar in nature to many of the drugs prescribed by doctors.

You now  know that you can turn on the stress response through the process of your  thinking which releases cortisol into your body; inhibiting healing and  suppressing your immune system.  You also know that you can turn ON the healing  process and release helpful endorphins, hormones, and chemicals into your body  such as serotonin in the same way.  When we consciously change our thinking  through beliefs, intentions, spiritual practice, meditation, or prayer, we can effect miraculous healing as  a result.  Beliefs do become biology!

Two thirds of doctors now believe  in the power of prayer; seeing it as important as medicine.  They see it as  psychologically beneficial to the patient as they feel God may answer their  prayers.  Miracles abound in the medical community.  The more people learn about  the use of alternative techniques such as EFT, the more miraculous changes will  occur.

By changing your beliefs, intentions, spiritual practice,  prayer, you can change the quality of your life.  Whether you choose meditation,  yoga, EFT, or some other type of energy technique to assist you, knowing that  you can take control over your emotions will make a difference in the quality of  your life.  So, what will it be?  Will you continue living life on an emotional  roller coaster or change course?  Personally, I prefer living in the fantastic  lane of the emotionally free. Sure, I have my days when things can get a little  chaotic but I also have the ability to turn my emotions around and change the  way my body is affected.  You can too, if you want to.

Wall Photo~In this photo:

One way to increase positive realities in our lives is to become complaint-free. Complaining, either silently or aloud, pours energy into what we DON’T want and imposes limits on all the opportunities that are available.

The ingredients which fuel stress-free, complaint-free living are simple and powerful new agreements. We are talking about INNER agreements.

It’s important to realize you can create new agreements with yourself. Silent ones… Powerful ones… Confidential ones….

Here is a list of seven powerful self-agreements or self-commitments to make that will untangle you from the web of mental noise, complaints, and stress:

1. I commit to treat mind chatter as a teacher, showing me what is true and what is illusion.

2. I agree to take new action when I feel stuck on the treadmill of my mind.

3. I agree to accept myself when I think negative thoughts or feel stress.

4. I commit to zero complaining about my life, people, and events.

5. I agree not to be harsh with myself when I cannot shut my mind off.

6. I agree to use mind chatter to show me a larger self identity, one already free inside.

7. I agree to use play and humor as ladders to raise me out of mental noise.

Let each of these work themselves into your awareness throughout the day. Take them into your heart and watch how things shift.

Blessings, Light Workers World