We Live in a Different World Now 2020.

We Live in a different world now 2020. We live in the world where sex is free and love costs. Where losing a phone is scarier than losing morale.

We Live in a different world now 2020

We live in the world where sex is free and love costs.

Where losing a phone is scarier than losing morale.

Where it is fashionable to get drunk and use drugs, Because if you don’t do that, you’re old and out and past it.

Where men cheat on their wives with girls and if they don’t, it’s for fear of being caught.

Where girls are more afraid of being pregnant than getting AIDS.

Where pizza delivery is faster than an ambulance.

Where clothes decide a person’s value and money is more important than friends and family…

This is not my world. Where has my world gone?

It’s very easy to give up on this life!

The good news is that whatever life situation or whatever life throws at us, we can always turn it around for ourselves once we decide to make it happen!

Individuals don’t need to become victims of own self-doubt because no one is destined for failure. In fact, you don’t need to accept the status of “Loser” on your forehead.  By taking actions today, individuals will start on a new journey toward success.

The following suggestions are offered:

  1. Develop a clear sense of purpose.
  2. Practice positive affirmations about yourself.
  3. Learn from past failures.
  4. Analyse successful people’s mistakes and learn how they cope with failure.
  5. Surround yourself with winners

I feel like pleading with you, if you have not already done so, to make a conscious decision today! Decide that you will take control of you thinking from  this moment on.

Decide that from now on you will do whatever it takes to keep any negativism at bay. Do this and stick to it and you will find that your life will take on far a more positive hue.

You will be far happier and have much more fun, In time you will have a whole new different life.

If you would like to learn more about this, and harness the power of positive thinking I hope that you will join me and countless others by staying tuned in, and by following my blog in future you can also find much more here on fb.

Please take care and have a good day. Wishing you health, peace and empowerment always.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻 💙

What is the purpose of your life?

“When a man does not know what harbor he is making for, no wind is the right wind.”



“A person with a clear purpose will make progress on even the roughest road. A person with no purpose will make no progress on even the smoothest road.”

-Thomas Carlyle


I believe each one of us is born with a unique purpose in life to fulfill. I believe there is a meaning to each one of our lives – that God does not create anything  without reason. Purpose is what gives us a real sense of direction to our life.  Without knowing our purpose, it is very easy to get sidetracked. Without purpose, we may be climbing the wrong ladder, and cutting down the wrong tree. Without purpose, we may be running very efficiently indeed, but headed in the opposite direction to where we really want to go!


As Henry David Thoreau said “Many wise men go fishing all of their life without knowing it is not fish they are after”. Having a purpose can mean the difference between making a living and making a life. Consistency of purpose is the secret of all successful people. Without a purpose, the actions we take and the goals we chase may not bring us fulfillment. Purpose is the why behind everything we do.


Here are the life purpose statements of some highly successful people:


“To uplift humanity’s consciousness through business”

-D.C Cordova – cofounder of the Excellerated Business school


“To humbly serve the Lord by being a loving, playful, powerful, and passionate example of the absolute joy that is available to us the moment we rejoice in God’s gifts and sincerely love and serve all of his creations.”

-Anthony Robbins, self-help guru


To leave the world a better place than I found it, for horses and for people”

-Monty Roberts, author of “the man who listens to Horses”


“To create and inspire one million millionaires who each give $1 million to their church or charity”

-Mark Victor Hansen, coauthor of the “Chicken soup of the soul” series


How can we discover our life purpose?


The joy that we experience in doing certain activities is the real key to discovering our life purpose. Joy is our inner guidance system. An activity that is aligned with our purpose gives us immense joy. A person who is doing what is true to his purpose if often willing to do it even if he does not get paid for the work, as the satisfaction from the work is itself enough compensation for the work done.


Think of all of the times since childhood when you were inspired and really joyful. What were you doing then?  How were you feeling? What was common in all the life experiences that gave you immense joy? Chances are that your purpose has something to do with those experiences. Also you can attempt to find your life purpose in meditation. After a session of meditation, ask yourself “What is the purpose of my life?”, “What am I here to do?” Allow the answer to come to you.


A purpose needs to mention not only what we will do and achieve, but also how our life will impact people around us. “Making a million dollars” can be a personal goal – it is however not  a purpose, as it does not include other people in the statement.


Some questions you can ask yourself to find out about your purpose:

  1. What work would you do, which you enjoy so much that you would be happy even if you did not get paid for it?
  2. What does your heart long to do?
  3. Who are you? Are you an athlete? An artist? An scientific mind? A businessman? A rockstar?
  4. What do you love to become in your future?
  5. What would you love to learn?
  6. If there is something that you would teach, what would it be?
  7. What drives you? love? peace? adventure? security?
  8. What do you what to experience in this life?


“Purpose” is different from “goal”

Many times, people take “purpose” and “goal” to be one and the same. They are not one and the same. Here are the differences:

  1. A goal is something that you attain one day, after striving towards it for sometime. Purpose is something that you are, because of which you have the drive to get up each morning and do what you want to do.
  2. Your goal is one of your destinations, whereas purpose is your journey.
  3. Attainment of goals/dreams is the effect, your purpose is the drive/cause.
  4. Your goal gives you some direction, whereas purpose gives you something greater – a meaning for your life, without which even attained goals may not satisfy you for long.


Does our life purpose have to be grand?

It is not necessary that each one of us need to define a life purpose that has plans to change the whole world. Each of us has unique talents, skills, and drives. – we experience joy in doing different things. When you are on purpose, you become the best possible you, and only you know what makes you the best you.


Can a life purpose change?

Absolutely. We are all growing bigger and better each day. As we grow, so will our life purpose. Define your life purpose, and expect to refine it along the way.

I highly encourage you to think about your life purpose  Getting clarity of purpose will greatly enhance the quality of your life. It will guide you in making many important decisions as your life unfolds, and will bring your much success, joy and fulfillment.

When You Know Your Core Values, Every Single Decision You Make is Easier.

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Written by Joanne Wellington for Mediums World

Sound core values are the foundation of a truly successful life. Have more purpose, passion and meaning in your life

In order for you to create this excellence anywhere in your life, there must be a strong foundation for you to build upon. Build that foundation with solid values and a strong sense of purpose, and your results will be nothing short of magical.

By living Your Core Values, not only will you be more successful , you enjoy your success more. You also achieve your outcomes with less effort and conflict.

From Core Values you can expect to . . .

  • gain real clarity about who you are  and what you stand for
  • make better choices about where you spend your time and who you spend it with
  • see why and how your values affect your bottom line
  • have more passion in your purpose & purpose in your passion
  • discover how your core values drive and direct your purpose
  • stay inspired and motivated; overcome discouragement
  • notice if, when and why you’re off-course
  • learn how to prioritize your goals
  • help your family and your friends to develop their values
  • get more of the right things done
  • stay focused on what matters most to you