Allow and express your inner child … Love your inner child like you would love a child you created. You would protect and fight to the death for your own child and this inner you, is also your child. Give birth to yourself. Let your child come out and play now and again” It is ok” to play with toys, colour, run bare foot around the garden, play on the park, jump up and down, run around the house, or just lick your partners face, shove an hair up the nose of the person that’s sitting next to you, Let your self be very silly and carefree. If you can do all this, you are so on your way to taking the power out of those that wont let you be , gaining control over the child within you again, not allowing any person to make you unhappy or sad, or have any power over your feelings . AS OF NOW YOU ARE NO LONGER A VICTIM , YOU ARE A VERY PROUD SURVIVOR!!!LET YOUR INNER child out try it now.