For all the ladies to remember & men to understand

When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day…….
An angel came by and asked."
Woman

For all the ladies to remember & men to understand

When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day…….
An angel came by and asked.”

Why spend so much time on her?”
The lord answered. “Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her?” She must function in all kinds of situations, She must be able to embrace several kids at the same time,
Have a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart,
She must do all this with only two hands, “She cures herself when sick and can work 18 hours a day”

THE ANGEL was impressed “Just two hands…..impossible! And this is the standard model?”

The Angel came closer and touched the woman

“But you have made her so soft, Lord”.
“She is soft”, said the Lord, But I have made her strong.

You can’t imagine what she can endure and overcome.”
Can she think?” The Angel asked…
The Lord answered. “Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate.”

The Angel touched her cheeks….
“Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her”
“She is not leaking…it is a tear” The Lord corrected the Angel…
“What’s it for?” Asked the Angel….. .
The Lord said.

“Tears are her way of expressing her grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”…This made a big impression on the Angel, “Lord, you are a genius. You thought of everything”.
A woman is indeed marvellous”
Lord said. “Indeed she is”.

She has strength that amazes a man.
She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens.
She holds happiness, love and opinions.
She smiles when she feels like screaming.

She sings when she feels like crying, cries when happy and laughs when afraid.

She fights for what she believes in.
Her love is unconditional.
Her heart is broken when a next-of-kin or a friend dies but she finds strength to get on with life.

The Angel asked: “So she is a perfect being?”
The lord replied: “No.

She has just one drawback
She often forgets what she is worth.

Have a good day. Wishing you health, peace and empowerment always.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻 💙

Self Love & Happiness

Today I feel the need to post this. I think we are all in need of a reminder that you are all amazing and we need to learn to love ourselves and take time for ourselves too.

We also need to find our own happiness, I think sometimes we all have this idea that someone else has to make us happy, that’s far from the truth, the truth is that’s down to you, there is no such thing as being constantly happy.

Life is full of ups and downs, its how we chose to deal with those situations that matters, happiness comes from within.

So choosing to smile, choosing to dance, sing, whatever make you happy do it, if you can’t fix something why worry? What purpose does that hold? Let it go.

The universe knows what to do even though you may not, trust in the universe, put out positive energy and you will get it back three fold.

Have a good day. Wishing you health, peace and empowerment always.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻 💙

Lets talk about self-pity…

Lets talk about self pity...the answer is really worth its weight in gold if found, if we want to be happy we have to stop feeling sorry for ourselves and stop wallowing in self pity if you think  about it we all enjoy doing it.

Lets talk about self-pity…the answer is really worth its weight in gold if found.

Lets talk about self-pity…the answer is really worth its weight in gold if found. If we want to be  happy we have to stop feeling sorry for ourselves and stop wallowing in self-pity. If you think  about it we all enjoy doing it and we do it way more than we consciously realise.. self-pity is a  soul emotion that clouds our happiness and I invite you to consider that for a  second.. because self-pity is a very unique emotion that eats up everything all around us except itself, leaving itself on its own little island… bitter and angry and sticking up for its own  values..

Self-pity does feel good at first because it reminds us of  hey you know the worlds so cruel and  life’s dealt us a bad hand, we are just not worthy, and that might be true in some cases but  its pretty pointless and it’s not really going to help us.. Let go of self-pity… It’s all about being responsible for your thoughts and actions again and you will  automatically clear those grey clouds shielding you from true happiness.

We sometimes go into the self-pity mode when we get to a point in life, and there are  guaranteed to be a couple, we have all been there, many of us on a daily basis. It is terrible  sometimes when we feel the world is caving in, when things go wrong all at once and we start  to feel sorry for ourselves and we realise ” Gee ” life isn’t really that good and isn’t treating us very well and  maybe we are not worth anything.

Maybe things are just destined to not work out for us, and then we feel sorry for ourselves and just wallow in that self-pity, and it’s quite ironic because it makes us feel  good temporarily, we sort of think “hey yeah I was right!” so there’s a little sort of quite positive  feedback from the negativity. But as you move forward slowly that self-pity, that feeling sorry for yourself, turns very bitter and gets worse and worse then you find that people around you who are trying to help are changing towards you but STOP is it really them…?

hmm… but then again it is hard to forgive the people who innocently push your buttons instead you get angry with them when  you are wallowing in self.

Really it’s not good for our well-being at all …you  just have try as much as possible to stop feeling sorry for yourself and you’ll very rarely have a reason for sadness its bad for all long-term.  You’ll enjoy and have more happiness in your life if  you could just remember it is just a part of  life  not the whole of it. We are always dipping into happiness and sadness and we do need both sides of this coin in order to know the difference.

To help us forward ourselves and all around us  we need to endure sadness but not hold it and not for long periods of time not even a whole day if you can help it.. we have to embrace the duality of it and be gentle with ourselves.

Written by Joanne Wellington
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America happy 4th of July.

4TH JULY

AMEN! Praying for your great country! May God bless and protect her and her lands! And may God bless all of you.

I pray for you
a heart free of sadness,
a mind free of worries,
a life full of gladness,
a body free of illness
and a day full of God’s blessings.

Amen.🙏❤️🇺🇸🙏

Have a good day Wishing you health, peace and empowerment.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻💙

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