“Imagine someone who cannot see their shadows, weaknesses or failures. Someone who thinks they were never wrong and never made a mistake. That is 100% unreasonable. We are human. The definition of human lies in the idea that we learn through experience, and that means we trip, fail, make dumb decisions UNTIL WE LEARN BETTER and grow.
But someone who REFUSES to see and face their failures doesn’t magically become better; they just blind themselves to half of their reality. Half of their identity and existence. This isn’t inspired by arrogance. It’s inspired by pure fear.
People who cannot gather the courage to face their shadow, avoid it because they are fully aware of the secrets that lie there and are hoping that if they don’t address them, then they will never have to admit the horrific reality, guilt, pain, suffering and negativity that lies right beneath the surface of their false persona.
It is a survival mechanism to blame others and avoid facing their own faults because their faults could crush them. If you pull the victim card every time someone tries to hold you accountable how do you ever expect to grow. Don’t fear to heal. All good things happen on the other side of healing.”
There’s a wonderful freedom in being able to admit that you’re wrong or that you don’t know something so go heal yourself and start now from here!
To find out more visit: medium2spirit.com – How to overcome negative thoughts
Have a good day Wishing you health, peace and empowerment.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻💙
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