DON’T be to quick to judge story!

A young couple moved into a new house. 

The next morning while they were eating breakfast, the young woman saw her neighbour hanging the washing outside.

“That laundry is not very clean; she doesn’t know how to wash correctly. Perhaps she needs better soap powder. 

Her husband looked on, remaining silent.

Every time her neighbour hung her washing out to dry, the young woman made the same comments.

A month later, the woman was surprised to see a nice clean wash on the line and said to her husband, “Look, she’s finally learned how to wash correctly. I wonder who taught her this?”

The husband replied, “I got up early this morning and cleaned our windows.”

And so it is with life… What we see when watching others depends on the clarity of the window through which we look.

So don’t be too quick to judge others, especially if your perspective of life is clouded by anger, jealousy, negativity or unfulfilled desires.

“Judging a person does not define who they are. It defines who you are.”

— Jonathan Kestenbaum

A wish,

A wish for you,

This week I wish for outrageous giggles with my kids, and peace for my friends. It has been a very long, difficult week for so many I love. Can’t help but pull out this old but favourite quote….

May today there be peace within.

May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be.

May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others.

May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.

May you be content with yourself just the way you are.

Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every one of us.

Have a wonderful week.! Wishing you health, peace and empowerment.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻💙

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Human leech problem…Is the process becoming one-sided?

“The Human Leech is whiny”. It thrives on pity and sympathy. The Leech will do anything to gain the sympathy of those


in its surroundings, and hurt those that are not, even if it has to make itself look sad and pathetic. The leech is persistent they will wear you down It’s just the way they are unfortunately for this lifetime and probably Meany more depending on what mind set they are at now!

” GET RID OF THEM!!! You can’t help people that don’t want to be helped”

Human leeches are those people who continually want more from us no matter how much we give them. Yet they refuse to reciprocate our efforts in any appropriate or meaningful ways.

Leeching possibilities are diverse and endless. It could be a grown daughter constantly asks us to baby-sit or to continue to provide for them as you did when children and is incensed when we decline. A neighbour routinely needs us to perform favours or lend him tools, or even expect you to abide by their rules of living yet never offers to feed our cat when we’re away. A co-worker is always happy to join us for happy hour, but disappears when it’s his turn to pick up the tab, in some cases they may offer to be nice to you in some way lend you something and expect a dedicated relationship for there good deed or expect an awful lot form it this is not in there good will its to trap you.

Whatever the circumstances, the result is always the same. Energy in the relationship travels one way. Recipients of leeching feel resentful. They feel they’re being taken for a ride. They long to stop the drain on their time, emotions and finances. Yet they’re frequently at a loss about how to stanch the flow.

Leeching creates a subtle stress that’s often unrecognized until it’s out of control. Many report feeling guilty saying “no” to the leeches’ demands. They dread hurting the chronic takers’ feelings. They worry about damaging the relationship. In truth, leeches don’t respect us anyway not in any way. Our relationships are contorted at best. They only want what we can give them. When the supply runs low, they happily move on to someone else.

Most of us are happy to help others. We’re eager to chip in wherever we can. We have no problem hosting the softball pasta feed on our patio or buying groceries for an ill friend. But if that giving goes on for an extended period of time or if our efforts are underappreciated, hostility starts to creep in. The process becomes one-sided. We know we’re being used.

Of course, sometimes the involved parties aren’t on an equal footing. They can’t give back as much as they get. A frail mother who has broken her hip is going to require on-going attention from her middle-aged offspring. She can’t possibly reciprocate their behaviour.

In those situations, it’s necessary for the adult children to care for the parent, making sure that she is safe and adequately cared for. Hopefully their own children will follow in their footsteps and be kind and attentive as their folks age. It’s important to remember that leeches can’t suck us dry unless we let them. Yes, leeches have poor boundaries. They don’t understand proper protocol. They see no problem continually asking for favours as long as others are willing to comply.

But they must have willing targets who cave in to their insatiable needs. They’re adept at scanning the emotional waters to learn who is willing to give them what they want. Then, once they’ve located a potential host spot, they attach their suckers and refuse to let go.

Tips for losing human leeches

Want to rid your life of leeches once and for all? Try these techniques:

Recognize leeching behaviour. Does someone always make demands on your money or time? Are they unappreciative about what you do? Do you feel resentful about what they’re asking? Do you have trouble setting limits on your relationship? Then you’re involved with a human leech. Do something about it now!

• Avoid over giving. Leeches prey on people who make giving a way of life. Yes, charity is honourable. But don’t chronically overextend. Give only what you comfortably can. Save ample emotional and physical resources for yourself.

• Decide on your personal boundaries. Leeches want you to feel pressured so you’ll say “yes” to their every demand. Instead, back away. Say, “I’ll let you know tomorrow.” Next, go home and analyse what you really want to do. Remember, you’re in charge.

• Practice the 2+1+1 rule. Have trouble setting limits with others? Use this sure-fire ploy: When asked to do something you don’t want to do, say two positive statements (i.e. “Thanks for thinking of me. You know I’d love to help.”), followed by your limit (“But I’m not able to volunteer at this time.”) and one more positive statement (“Hope the event goes well.”).

• Quiet guilt. You fret that your “no” will damage the relationship. Calm your fears. You’re doing the right thing, protecting your boundaries while teaching your leech an invaluable lesson.

• Don’t cave in to leeches’ ranting. Human leeches are accustomed to having their way. If they put up a fuss, feel free to ignore them. They’ll eventually stop whining and move on to someone else they can suck dry.

Leeches ~Are ruled by the green eye monster within them.

Seven steps to reduce your ego,

Have a good day Wishing you health, peace and empowerment.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻💙

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Anyone can develop psychic powers and other supernatural abilities

🔮Did you know that every human being, without exception, as well as many animals are naturally endowed with “God-given” abilities including Psychic Powers, Clairvoyance, Telepathy, Mental Influencing and many more, yet most people are completely unaware of this, believing instead that such “supernatural powers” belong only to the gifted, privileged few?

Well nothing could be further from the truth.

Anyone can develop psychic powers and other supernatural abilities.

Thousands of years ago our ancient ancestors routinely used their own psychic abilities for survival.

The ancient cave people had no elaborate equipment which we take for granted now. All they had were primitive weapons, their strength and their natural powers upon which their survival depended.

Our ancient ancestors might have seemed “primitive” in terms of technology and other modern conveniences taken for granted today, but they sure were not primitive when it came to making maximum use of the psychic and other powers they knew they had and why they had them.

Before they embarked on a hunting trip they would paint a picture of their quarry on the wall of the cave, and by using trance techniques would reach out to their intended prey, which was often many times their size, then by using psychic attraction would cause the prey to be ready and waiting. They always knew beyond doubt they would feed and they did feed – which is why they were able to survive such harsh ice-age conditions, with no real shelter or warmth, and in turn why we are here today.

Had our ancient ancestors not used their natural powers, which is all they had or needed, to the greatest extent, they would likely not have survived and neither therefore would the human race.

Even today there are cultures hidden away from “modern civilisation” who still use their psychic powers of all types, including telepathy in order to survive quite happily.

In one remote part of the world remote tribes communicate telepathically just as modern humans use the telephone, sending advanced messages, new and information purely by psychic means. To them this is natural, and they would likely be shocked to discover that “modern humans” do not use this ability or even realise it exists.

You might well even have heard of the “psychic leaders” of many tribes – known as “shamans”.

The truth is…
Everyone has the potential to develop Shamanic Powers and even greater.

As humans have become more focused upon material things, influenced by religion and have become more sceptical, these natural psychic abilities have been forgotten over time – but not lost.

The natural psychic abilities of most humans lie buried deep under layers of materialism and indoctrination, hibernating, just waiting to be rediscovered and brought to the fore once again.

As the saying goes “use it or lose it”.

As with the loss of any facility, whether it be psychic, physical or mental, once the realisation exists that any natural ability can be restored with the right knowledge, exercise and commitment, the motivation to succeed takes over, and all you need then is the guidance and commitment.

“Miracles”, “Supernatural” or “Paranormal” become possible and can later even normal.

If your interested in learn more about this click here ! 🙂

please have a good day Wishing you health, peace and empowerment.
Xxx ~J.W~ 🙏🏻💙

Our History of Angels

Angels, angelic beings, Gods messengers, guardians or spirits beings from the higher realms, mythological or real. However you perceive them throughout our history across nearly all religions and cultures we have always held them in high regard as the sacred ones, holy, just and mighty next to God the source of all love and light, the truth and the direction we inspire to ascend too.

Angels, angelic beings, Gods messengers, guardians or spirits beings from the higher realms, mythological or real. However you perceive them throughout our history across nearly all religions and cultures we have always held them in high regard as the sacred ones, holy, just and mighty next to God the source of all love and light, the truth and the direction we inspire to ascend too.

Angels have been deeply embedded in our hearts and minds for thousands of years; the thought alone provokes the same reaction across the world in all faiths. We simply look up to the sky as if instinctively knowing from where they came from.

They have been depicted throughout our history and in ancient texts from the Bible, Quran, Judaism, and ancient Persia. Angels also have been immortalised in paintings and sculptures from the majestic arts of the renaissance period, Rome, Greece, Egypt and all the way back to even our first recorded civilizations like Babylon and the Sumerians. It could easily be perceived that they are immortal compared to us, as one civilization reigns for approximately 3000 years or more, only to end and leave a mystical legend of mythology, grand architectures and artworks for the next generation to try and decipher or just be bewildered by its majestic and divine grandeur.

Then another civilization takes its place and each time religion reinvents itself and in a new belief system our Angels appear once more. It’s almost as if they have never left us and really are amongst us, just seeing us through our time watching, waiting even guiding us. Until one day we finally are ready to evolve and take are place amongst those Angel beings in the skies.

As we look back in history we can only begin to understand just after the last Ice Age around 12,000 to 10,000 years ago. As the glaciers slowly receded and the climate continued to change and gave birth to an area known as the ‘fertile crescent’ spanning across parts of what is now known as the Middle East.

The first recorded civilization to begin was Samaria, Mesopotamia dated circa 6,000 years B.C. The Sumerians had left behind an array of unbelievable artefact’s in pictographs and cuneiform; their culture tells us a fantastic story recorded in clay tablets of the birth of man from Godly beings called the Annunaki.

They were depicted as deities winged Angels that came from the heavens down to earth. They brought knowledge of the solar system, mathematics also how to harvest and yield crops. These majestic winged Angels have been beautifully captured in the Sumerian clay tablets for more than 6,000 years. After Sumeria’s decline its influence could be noticed in Babylon, Persia and across most of the Middle East.

Native American Indians could be argued as maybe having the oldest cultural community alive to this day. It is believe they may have migrated to the Americas just after the last Ice Age some 12,000 years ago circa. Their culture is steeped in magic and wonder and is beautifully illustrated through their traditional dances, costumes, stories and art, like the totem poles of winged Angels. Their history also tells a magical tale of their connection to the ‘seven sisters’ star group or known as the Pleiades. It is believed they are descendents of these Angelic Beings called Plieadens and this belief has been kept alive over thousands of years through their ancient culture.

Ancient Egypt is one of the most mystical and majestic awe inspiring wonders of the known world. Egyptian mythology and architecture is as mythical and magical as the Angels they worshiped themselves.

You could be forgiven to think that they were constructed by the hands of the Egyptian Deities themselves. From the Great Pyramids and the Sphinx to the fascinating tales captured in the Hieroglyphs that tells of the lives of these great beings that seemed to share their knowledge to the elites of the Pharaohs.

The ancient Egyptian civilization had ruled from around 3150BC and for some 3000 years more up until the Roman Empire conquered Egypt around 31BC. After Egypt’s decline of power its influence can been seen through the Roman Empire, Greece, and Christianity and across Europe.

As we briefly look back at some examples of our history of Angels throughout our historic past of all nations and civilizations, we can only just grasp the concept of the magnificence and brilliance that man has achieved beside his great Deities. Although much of the achievements are scattered in myth and legend history still holds many truths and seems to only release itself when it feels we are ready to understand a little bit more. Though as to influence our beliefs and understanding, our Angels have survived the erosion of time and still remain immortalised in our history and architecture even today.

As we race into the technological era of today with flight and space exploration our understanding of the symbolism of the wings become clearer than say a thousand years ago.

The winged symbol of our Angels is synonymous with Aviation of today. From Commercial and Military Pilots to parachutists and even Astronauts, the winged emblem is a universal symbol around the world.

Could it be so hard to believe that our ancient ancestors had depicted the fact that our winged angels were aviators? That had flown in from the heavens, the sky?

Well thanks to our understanding of space flight the thought of seeing an aircraft in the skies would not faze us one bit now but maybe a thousand years ago it would command an unimaginable impression upon the civilizations that experienced it.

They would be seen as Angels, Angelic beings even Gods that could do the impossible back then flight, and they would have brought advanced knowledge with them.

  • Could it be so bold as to believe that man has had a guiding hand in his past?
  • In building monumental structures even the understanding of the stars?
  • Would it be a devastating fact to know that other beings have shared their time and effort with us?
  • Also is it such a terrible thought or taboo to think they could still be with us?

Whatever you regard as the truth or not our history seems to show us the possibilities as if to say you are not alone and we are with you as we were back then and still are now. The defining point it seems to me anyway is they respect and love us, our free will has never been taking from us and we can choose to believe what we will.

Written by Mark Bennis