Well first off everyone knows the saying ” It doesn’t matter what a person looks like on the outside its what’s on the inside that counts” everyone should know and understand this by the age of 9 years
Most of all its because they are ignorant. They wont open their mind to anything that is different’.
They just don’t understand that EVERYONE “IS” DIFFERENT Its because they choose to stay on the lower levels and don’t want to know or understand anyone, or accept anyone for who they are sometimes not even themselves.
Unfortunately for those that don’t care about anyone but themselves It makes it easier for them to deal with you, and ultimately, dismiss you, because they don’t have anything better to do than sit around and judge people, pick faults and just pick on people in general anyway. We have to realize they are probably going through the same thing through self torture and loss.
Its because they want to feel better about themselves because most people have little confidence so they make people feel lower than them by giving them a bad name, Some people try to put people in the same group as themselves only, Some people are just copy cats and just follow the crowd knowing that its wrong .. But guess what people get older and wiser and learn the truth… what goes around comes around” Kama”.
And finally some people don’t want to be different so they’re scared they take a back seat and label everyone they know anyway so that they remain alone with just the little bits they have they simply “think” that they want to be alone but no one is here to be alone, there is some one for everyone no matter what they look like or what type of person they are they just have to realise this as When one door closes, another one opens but sometimes we have to be the ones willing to initiate opening new doors in our lives and be willing to take the chance to walk through them also, or else we will never discover what better opportunities await us out there .
Labelling people is not the way forward by doing so you create pain for them and loss for you that person could have become someone very special in your life … maybe even a soul mate? Imagine all the people we may lose just by giving them the wrong label or by following the crowd.
Written by Joanne Wellington
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