It is a common misunderstanding that forgiveness is for the person who wronged us. When we are considering whether a person is deserving of our forgiveness or not, that very thought implies that we are passing judgement against him. When we think of the other person as having done an action
that is wrong to us, we are saddened, hurt, …angered or in resentment. All these negative emotions make us feel terrible – they come at the expense of our happiness and peace of mind.When we decide to forgive, we release these bad feeling emotions and set ourselves free. Thus giving forgiveness is not primarily for the person who we think wronged us. The purpose of forgiving is really for us to feel centered and peaceful again. It is to free up our energy and make it available for constructive purposes. Let us attempt to rise a little higher today and let go of our anger, hatred and resentment, and become peaceful again within ourselves by giving much needed forgiveness to those we hold a grudge against.
Come on stumblers and good friends please share this help many hearts x.