Anger~Life’s Lessons

Anybody can become angry — that is easy; but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way — that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.

Anger cannot be overcome by anger. If someone is angry with you, and you show anger in return, the result is a disaster. On the other hand, if you control your anger and show its opposite – love, compassion, tolerance and patience – not only will you remain peaceful, but the other person’s anger will also diminish.

~ Dalai Lama ~

The child you once were still lives.

Allow and express your inner child … Love your  inner child like you would love a child you created. You would protect and fight to the death for your own child and this inner you, is also your child. Give birth to yourself. Let your child come out and play now and again” It is ok” to play with toys, colour, run bare foot around the garden, play on the park, jump up and down, run around the house, or just lick your partners face, shove an hair up the nose of the person that’s sitting next to you, Let your self be very silly and carefree. If you can do all this, you are so on your way to taking the power out of those that wont let you be , gaining control over the child within you again, not allowing any person to make you unhappy or sad, or have any power over your feelings . AS OF NOW YOU ARE NO LONGER A VICTIM , YOU ARE A VERY PROUD SURVIVOR!!!LET  YOUR INNER child out try it now.



To a wonderful Granddaughter

A loving wish for you,

I wish for a life that’s filled with happiness

No matter what you do.

You’re such a special Granddaughter

Of that there is no doubt,

The kind that lucky Grandparents

Are proud to boast about…

Happy Birthday little (Ella )

A few words just to show,

Just how much we love you

And we wanted you to know.

You’re so very precious

It will be wonderful to find,

A little girl so very beautiful

So now we really want to say

How proud we are of you,

And wish for you many special day’s

When all your dreams may come true

happy (birthday) Ella

Lots of love from

Grandma and Granddad.